John Crist is a popular Christian
comedian, known for short video bits that he’s posted on social media that
usually poke fun at Christian culture in a clean way. Unfortunately,
reports have come out that Crist regularly preyed upon women and sexually
harassed them. He has admitted to sexual addiction
and treating women poorly and that he has sinned against God. He
has canceled his comedy tour, and reportedly his upcoming Netflix special is
now on hold. What is also concerning is that this was evidently not a
surprise to several people who had heard second- or third-hand that Crist had
this problem. That this predatory behavior flew under the radar in a
Christian setting is frustrating.
Sexual sin is going to be a temptation
until Jesus comes back, but there are some ways to combat it. The first
thing to realize is that none of us are completely immune to it. Sure,
most of us probably would not go to the lengths of someone like Crist, preying
upon multiple women (even married ones) at the same time in a highly aggressive
manner, but we are all capable of screwing up in some manner. Admitting
this opens the door for both personal safeguards and accountability.
Safeguards include things like basic
boundaries with people of the opposite sex. I’m not a fan of paranoia and
creating hard and fast rules that are not in Scripture or based on logical
implications from Scripture, but there is a great deal of wisdom in following
reasonable guidelines that keep men from temptation, women safe, and marriages
secure. Things like not making it a habit talking to or hanging out with
women all the time, especially women that you do not already know and have an
established and understood relationship with, can go a long way in protecting
men from temptation. There are other good guidelines as well, like making
sure you’re spending just as much or more time with other guys rather than just
trying to be surrounded by women.
As sinners, we usually do not like accountability, but we have to be open to
it. Crist seemed to have almost none as a traveling Christian celebrity,
and that obviously wasn’t good. On the flipside, we should also be
willing to hold guys’ feet to the fire when they’re clearly doing something
wrong. It can be uncomfortable and even disrupt relationships, but we do
nobody in favors, least of all the Christ we proclaim, when we try to bury our
head in the sand to “keep the peace.” Those Christians who knew about
Crist’s actions and did nothing made a mistake.
As for women, there are things they can do too in addition to mirroring many of the same boundaries and accountability men should have. It is often hard for many women to do this, especially to men that they respect and admire, but they have to be willing to critically evaluate and challenge influential men. Ultimately, for Christian women, their total allegiance should be to Christ alone. It helps if a male leader actively encourages critical thinking and does not react negatively to criticism, but even if he’s not that way, critical evaluation is important. And if a guy tries to silence these things without good, biblical reasoning, that’s a good sign that you need to get some distance. I hope there is healing for all involved, especially for the women but even for Crist, who needs the grace (and discipline) of Christ right now. However, while the grace and mercy of Christ are powerful indeed, we should not take them for granted, and it is far more pleasing to God and faithful to the gospel to do our best to avoid egregious sin like this in the first place. We have to admit that we too are fallible human beings who need safeguards and accountability to help us in our sanctification process. – Isak Lee